behind the name - spttog

also known as: she’s probably talking to other guys - you know that phrase you hear when someone’s trying to downplay their own insecurities? yep, that one…btw, this is a podcast where assumptions, overthinking, and brutal honesty collide.

for a long time, people assumed i was doing *the most*—talking to other guys, playing games, being out all the time—when in reality? i was usually just home. messy bun, oversized tee, watching a show, minding my business. but instead of asking, they made assumptions. and instead of owning their feelings, they projected them onto me.

so i decided to take the phrase and flip it. she’s probably talking to other guys isn’t just a cheeky title. it’s a reminder that people will always create their own stories about you—and sometimes, those stories say more about them than they do about you. it’s also about reclaiming power, embracing the complexities of dating, and having honest, unfiltered conversations from a girl who’s been there, done that, and still gets misread.

🎧 want to hear the full story behind the name? listen to the pilot episode (available on wednesday, 7/9/25 on spotify and right here on my site) of she’s probably talking to other guys for the full breakdown.

you’ll find out exactly why this name stuck, what it really means to me, and how it sets the tone for everything we’re going to get into on the podcast—relationships, real talk, and maybe even a little chaos.

let’s talk about it. tune in on wednesdays! episodes drop at 5am..listen anytime!

xo, annie