apparently if you don’t love every tradition, every event, every song, or every expectation, you’re labeled a grinch. but holiday assumptions say more about pressure than they do about people.

this episode is all about holiday assumptions — the ones we casually make, why we should stop assuming so much, and choosing a new thought that actually feels better. holiday assumptions don’t get to decide your mood, your boundaries, or your version of festive.

holiday assumptions are everywhere this time of year, so let’s talk about them.

as the year wraps up, there’s one little notification that has a hold on music lovers everywhere—spotify wrapped. it’s equal parts exciting, validating, embarrassing, and oddly emotional. and this year? mine felt like a pretty accurate reflection of where my head and heart have been…

episode 18 is officially live, and this one is different..not because it’s about celebrity culture — but because it’s about how people talk about women, how fast the public creates assumptions out of thin air, and why kim kardashian is one of the perfect case studies.

the word “high maintenance” gets thrown around way too casually — and usually as an insult. but honestly? i think we’ve all outgrown that version of the phrase.

in this week’s episode of she’s probably talking to other guys, we talked about what high maintenance actually means… and why it’s probably one of the biggest compliments you can receive.

there’s this funny thing that happens as you grow older and suddenly realize…wait, do people actually think they’re entitled to a front row seat to my life? like every detail? every feeling? every plot twist?

dating is already confusing enough, but add in all the assumptions we make and suddenly everything feels like a mind game we didn’t sign up for. in episode two of she’s probably talking to other guys, we talked about the way assumptions sneak into our conversations, our situationships, and literally every stage of getting to know someone.

this episode is your invitation to question what you think you know about others, be intentional with your energy, and stop letting other people’s assumptions mess with your peace of mind. because the truth is: people will always have something to say — but you get to decide what actually sticks.