12/25/25

she’s probably filling her own cup first this holiday season | she’s probably talking to other guys (spttog) | the banannie diaries by annie

the holidays bring a mix of emotions…joy, stress, grief, pressure…sometimes all at once. in this episode, i’m talking about what it really looks like to move through the season with your boundaries intact, your nervous system protected, and your energy respected.

we unpack the idea that you don’t owe anyone a perfect holiday version of yourself. we talk about setting boundaries, choosing rest without guilt, opting out of traditions that no longer feel aligned, and redefining what “celebrating” even means.

whether you’re surrounded by family, spending it alone, working through it, traveling, or just trying to survive the noise, this conversation is about choosing care over performance. no forced gratitude. no pretending. just honesty, softness, and permission to show up as you are.

if this season feels heavy, complicated, or quietly overwhelming, this episode is your reminder: rest is allowed. boundaries are not selfish. and filling your own cup isn’t selfish, it’s necessary.

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