8/12/25

she’s probably comparing her beginning to someone’s middle | she’s probably talking to other guys (spttog) | the banannie diaries by annie

don’t compare your chapter 2 to someone’s chapter 20 is a phrase i like to use when it comes to comparison. this episode is all about how easy it is to get caught up in comparing your progress to others, whether it’s career, creativity, or life in general. the person you’re eyeing has been grinding for years (or maybe you don’t even know how long) while you’re just getting started. comparison is exhausting and unfair.

i break down why comparing yourself to someone else’s story steals your focus, distorts reality, and makes you forget how far you’ve come. i share strategies to redirect that energy into your own growth so you can stop stressing over what others might be doing.

your story is yours and it’s unfolding exactly as it should. comparing your beginning to someone’s middle doesn’t make you behind. it makes you human.

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